Are you guilty being judgmental ?

Are you guilty being judgmental ?

No one in this world is perfect. WE ARE HUMAN!!! Surely, we will always make mistakes. To my view, I partially agree that we feel guilty of judging others. Being judgmental has pros and cons simultaneously.  A positive judgment can be done without any sense of prejudice. The motive of positive judgement is giving advice and correcting our mistakes. But, people nowadays like to judge things emotionally without thinking about the consequences rationally. So, I want to share some tips to promote positive judgement.

1. Changing your view to others

·       Oftentimes, people who judge others have strict standards for their own conduct. If you judge someone harshly in a situation, you may have judged yourself as harshly in the same scenario. Bear in mind that other people just like you often make the same error.

2. Expanding your worldwide and knowledge

·       Get involved in activities that can open up your mind. A matured, rational and critical thinking can ensure people that will analyse, interpret and synthesize the suitable judgement with their general knowledge and sense of humanity.

3. Getting rid of your prejudice

·       We should try to figure out the root of their prejudice. If we can figure out the roots of prejudiced thoughts, this can help us to see how they are irrational. When we have deep-seated beliefs about something, we see those prejudiced beliefs actually reflected in innocent actions. In fact, we are projecting our own prejudice.

4. Considering other person’s perspective before judging

·       Everyone has a unique history and personality that affects their behaviors. Before leaping to judge a person’s missteps, we should consider about his / her background and other related aspects.

Don’t judge a book by its cover. Try to be responsible for your judgement. Don’t let your judgement hurt someone who is innocent. Words hurt someone deeply than a knife.

Thank You.